Coming Back To You To Your Home.
Living your life after narcissistic abuse is like living in a foreign land. You don't understand the language, food, culture or anything else and you may feel totally alienated and isolated. You long for your roots; a place where you can call your home but you can barely put the pieces of this home together. Only someone who has experienced this loneliness will actually get it.
In the distance memory, you may have a vague picture of who you were like. The rest of you is a person who adapted to serve someone else's fantasy.
How do you find your home after living in someone else's fantasy for so long?
Even if the fantasy world was full of pain, it was the world you knew. It was familiar to you. So, it is a scary journey to come back to finding your home. It's confusing too. I get that. I have been there myself.
But here's what I want you to know: your home – the person you were born to be – awaits you. It's prepared to welcome you. The person you were born to be is a person who was conditioned by the society, experienced trauma in the hand of the loved ones and now raising wonderful children.
You have all the life experiences, lessons and wisdom to find your way back home. Tell the inner child who is scared to take the first step that she or he would be ok. Because, that inner child is waiting eagerly to spread her wings and fly.
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