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Narcissistic abuse recovery coaching itself has become manipulative and confusing. People need help but we must do everything we can do ensure that we respect informed consent, their boundaries and their wellbeing. People are confused, doubtful and vulnerable when they have already been victimized by abuse. As coaches, we have a duty of care towards those who are vulnerable to protect them. This blog looks at some traps and webs that I see online around narcissistic abuse recovery coaching.
Continue readingHave you ever ruminated on the following? "How did I get here?" "What did I do wrong?" "Could I have done anything to prevent this from happening?" "If only I knew, I would have been safer" Sometimes, the rumination is so intense that you are crippled and unable to make decisions or see clearly. Some days, your thoughts spiralled out of control so much that you feel so helpless and angry. I get that. I have experienced every bit of those moments. Let me tell you something. "It's not you!".
Continue readingWhat if you develop the ability never to be in a relationship with a narcissist or a psychopath every again? There are 7 promises you can make to yourself that will protect you from any type of abusive relationships. Let's get into it.
Continue readingThere are three elements of co-parenting with a narcissist journey. All three factors are equally important. However, you can prioritize one of them based on where you are on the journey. Those three aspects are; There are three elements that I would like you to focus on. 1) Deepen your relationship with your children. 2) Heal from narcissistic abuse. 3) Create a parallel parenting strategy. Which element is your priority? Read more and find out.
Continue readingThe narcissist will continue to trash you to your children. Their neglectful, manipulative, ignorant behaviour may continue to create self-doubt in your children. But, your ability to deeply connect with your children is the antidote to ongoing abuse. Your skills of being an emotionally attuned parent will help your children grow up to be healthy, securely attached children.
Continue readingHow to protect my children from the narcissistic partner or ex? That's the most common worry of all the parents who co-parent with a narcissistic partner or ex. There are plenty of tell-tale signs of manipulation and there are plenty of things you can do.
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