Society will force you to reconcile. Family and friends would expect you to co-parent because they believe it’s what’s best for children. Deep down, you may want to co-parent for the sake of the children. In some cases, the court may have ordered you to co-parent.
But, the reality is,
You have a better chance of bumping into a unicorn that farts rainbows than meeting a narcissist who agrees to co-parent mutually.
The chaos a narcissist creates in your life is not something that anyone would understand. The damage is unfathomable to you and to your children. But, you know that already.
Your ability to be present and build genuine connections with your children is the antidote to the narcissist’s attempts to alienate you, trash you to the children, gaslight your children, and use your children against you.
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