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Are you parenting with a narcissistic partner or ex?
I can help you preserve your sanity, take your life back and help your children thrive.
Is co-parenting possible?
Society will force you to reconcile. Family and friends would expect you to co-parent because they believe it’s what’s best for children. Deep down, you may want to co-parent for the sake of the children. In some cases, the court may have ordered you to co-parent.
But, the reality is,
You have a better chance of bumping into a unicorn that farts rainbows than meeting a narcissist who agrees to co-parent mutually.
The chaos a narcissist creates in your life is not something that anyone would understand. The damage is unfathomable to you and to your children. But, you know that already.
Your ability to be present and build genuine connections with your children is the antidote to the narcissist’s attempts to alienate you, trash you to the children, gaslight your children, and use your children against you.
What my clients have experienced
"Re-building myself. I have worked with Nisanka for over 2 years, zoom calls, last minute phone calls, messages, emails, she is always there to offer support and guidance. Nisanka helps me work through any obstacle I face and helps me navigate through them effectively. Recently I have found myself looking back over our time and realising how much impact she has had on my decision making, helping me grow into a stronger more confident version of myself.
I find myself giving support to friends, colleagues and students sharing the knowledge she has taught me along the way. Looking back on my own personal journey, I’m realising how truly amazing Nisanka is, she checks in on me to see how I am (usually when I need her the most) she just knows. The level of service she offers is above and beyond. I appreciate all Nisanka has and continues to provide and I am thankful she came into my life when she did 😇💛#forevergrateful"
Sharlene Davis
"The rating I want to give the session we did is simply not possible!
There is no score that is high enough or that I can give you the credit you deserve! It was and is without a doubt the best course or piece of work I have ever done in all my years in my working career.
Your ability to home in on my emotions the way you did is unreal and I have NOT stopped talking to everyone around me about the hour we had. It had a profound impact on me, one that will stay with me for a very long time.
I do not just feel extremely fortunate but actually really humbled to have been given the opportunity to work with you. THANK YOU!.
As you were able to work out within minutes I am gong through a really difficult time at the minute with my line manager and the way you were able to guide me through the emotions I have related directly to that was a surreal experience.
Your ability to guide me through the minefield of doubt, fear, and your encouragement to come out of the shadows to reassure me that it is ok to feel the emotions I feel was something that will never forget.
I came out of the session feeling not just empowered but “normal” and that it was not me that was the issue but the person that is displaying the behaviours that I have believed and keep being told by that individual were wrong all along.
It’s ironic how victims start to doubt themselves and the world they find themselves in. They start to question everything that deep down they know does not need to be questioned.
I have looked more into Narcissistic personalities and I am speechless at the traits these kind on individuals have when compared to my manager.
Thank you so much for giving me the tools that you did and for spending the last 30minutes to support me with mechanisms to avoid being caught up in the “games” that as you said feed their ego’s.
On a personal note you are one of the most kindred spirits I have ever met, one of the kindest most beautiful people too, your energy and positivity is unreal. I really hope that our paths meet again and that someday we are able to work together again in the future.
I keep reading the words I put down when you asked me to write to myself and say something to yourself where everything is perfect.
“I am going to fulfil my destiny and I am Special”! Thank you for helping me see that again!
No words can describe or give you credit for the impact you had on me and from the very depths of my heart I wish you all the very best for the future. You are a beautiful person don’t you ever forget either!
With the deepest gratitude and sincerity (yes you’ve done it again, lol the tears are flowing)"
Natasha Burney
"I was watching so much video clips on Narcissism, lo and behold, at one point in my Instagram feed I saw Nisanka’s account coparenting with a narcissist_coach and couldn’t believe what I was seeing!
I couldn’t believe there was someone out there specializing in helping parents coparent with a narcissist whilst preserving their sanity! I couldn’t believe that there was somewhere out there that was helping people navigate through my exact situation! ...
... After interviewing a few local options, I thought I found one who had the expertise to understand and help me, but was I ever wrong! After a couple of sessions I stopped working with her and I reconnected with Nisanka who thankfully was available for an initial chat fairly quickly and after only one session, I knew she could help me! From the outset she did not question what I was going through/my diagnosis of my ex.
She just accepted that what I was telling her was true, which was extremely refreshing, after unfortunately being gaslit by that previous therapist. She is a very kind and compassionate human who just has that comforting IT factor that makes you feel validated and special and makes you feel that things will be OK.
She is just one of those people who makes you feel better about yourself and as a result you want her energy around you all the time. I also find she has a very intuitive, flexible and organic approach and is definitely not following a script. In my experience, she will figure out what you need and give it to you even if it’s not the exact work that she envisioned doing with you. I can also assure you there are no scams with her and she is only there to try and help you.
When she tells you, you can pay what you can or you come and go from a monthly program etc, you can believe her. I have no hesitation in recommending Nisanka. She can help YOU because SHE IS YOU. She will give you the love, support, courage and the tools that you need to finally live your best life."
Elena Steinberg
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